LoSerpan: Something that losers do!
To talk about it in detail I can tell you that it is the false belief that you’re in ‘love’ with someone, which leads to a relationship. It is also the result of a prior commitment between two individuals who think it’s ‘OK’ to be in a relationship as they are going to become life partners later in life. Such commitments are often secret, unofficial and non-marital, and so is everything else resulting from such commitments.
So, why is it called LoSerpan? Because it is actually giving in to your weaknesses, whereby you compromise on things like values, religion, culture, modesty, conscience and then there comes a time when you think you’re already dead, if not really, then at least you start believing that! Well, that’s not entirely true my friends, but that’s a different story and a different perspective of it…
Anyway, my point behind this blog post is not just to tell you people about LoSerpan, because people normally know what LoSerpan is, no matter what they call it. My point here is to warn you guys and girls about LoSerpan’s biggest side effect. And yeah, mind you, there are so many other side effects that a ‘sane’ person would never fall for any type of LoSerpan, but then again, that’s why people like me, call it LoSerpan: Something that losers do. The biggest side effect is the regret that you get out of losing your virginity with the wrong person at the wrong time in your life, believing that it’s ‘OK’ because he/she is eventually going to be your husband or wife. And this is often done in naivety, though I wouldn’t call individuals involved ‘innocent’ in any way, but yeah to an extent they don’t really know what they’re doing and how dreadfully they’re going to regret it for the rest of their lives.
There are many factors behind this ‘side effect’. Our media: films, television, advertisements, and even the news nowadays promote such relationships and commitments. Our friends in LoSerpan make it look and sound good only because they’re losers themselves. Siblings, just because my brother/sister has a girlfriend/boyfriend I have to keep one as well, and so many other factors that I don’t want to talk about…
To conclude, I would say I have seen it and heard it enough times now, people in LoSerpan I have just one thing to say to you, It’s never too late to sort things out in your head and in your life. Everyone is entitled to make mistakes in their life but as they say it: Not learning from a mistake is a bigger mistake! Don’t make bigger mistakes and ruin your life completely, if not for yourself, do it for other people in your life, people who ‘really’ love you.
In the end, I would like you all to watch this music video ‘Khwabon ke rishte’ by Najam Shiraz it has a lesson for all the LoSers in LoSerpan!
M B A Khan
Yeah I know I’ve been a bit away, again! But yeah, this time it’s different, I am up to something worth experiencing, and that is sorting matters out between the people I love and Myself. There had been so many misunderstandings that I cannot even understand how to misunderstand them anymore, and I think this is the right time for you to start winding up things.
Can you imagine? I haven’t clicked my camera for more than over a month and a half, and I’m dreading it. Am I losing interest AGAIN, or maybe I just needed a break, yeah, I think I just needed a break to relax and ease myself a bit.
Same goes for blogging business, no blog posts, and again I would like to think that this is because I have had other “more interesting interests” for the last month and a half.
Though I have realised the importance of talking to Mama and Babajan every so often, because if I don’t, there will be serious consequences, which I may regret later on. So yeah, Mama and Babajan, I’m sorry. I have been a bit lazy and a bit ____ by not staying THAT close to you, but as for after now, I’ve understood and I’m not ignoring nothing coming from you guys.
Friends is one thing that still needs sorting out, but don’t worry I’m working on it. I just wanted to get comfortable and I think I am comfortable enough now, with the help of this lovely new friend that I made.
So yeah, things are getting good in the head, and I’m sure I will come back to LIFE really soon…
M B A Khan
This is just a quick one. No Happy Valentines Day to you all, because I don’t celeberate or wish it to anyone, it’s not my religion, my culture and last but not the least it’s not me!
But, what I’ve done in the above piece of work is totally about the basic idea of Valentines, about romance, about love, about sex and all those kinds of things…
This is conceptual photography and nothing else, so don’t get me wrong that I’ve took a picture of myself posing outside an adult store so I’ve changed my thoughts about Valentines Day. This post is also meant to clear the misunderstanding amongst friends and fans about my idea of Valentines, so here it is, I am totally against it!